LPNI
Devotion
The
Wounded Healer
World Suicide Prevention
Day occurs in this month and it is a sobering
reminder of the intense mental anguish that many people face in their
lives. Parish nurses get an insight into
this struggle as they meet with people and seek to help them. You may have gone to visit someone thinking
that you were dealing with a particular problem and soon discovered that there
was a much deeper issue involved.
Providing help for a
physical injury can often be less complicated than the help needed for mental
and emotional suffering. It is not as
easy to diagnose, and the solution is also not always clear. And when a person ends their life it can
leave many unanswered questions and feelings of guilt for those left behind.
Maybe you have been in
this situation and have wondered what more you could have done to help. When people are weak emotionally, we feel as
though we need to be strong. But maybe
our own weakness can be our biggest strength in these situations. We see this lesson given throughout the
Bible. Strength in weakness.
The prophet Isaiah spoke
of the suffering servant, especially with the very well-known verse: But he was pierced for our
transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the
punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his
wounds we are healed (Isaiah 53:55, NIV).
Seven hundred years later Jesus became flesh to take on this role as our
suffering servant.
Jesus revealed himself as the Good Shepherd who cared for
his sheep (John 10). But he is also the
Lamb of God who laid down his life for us.
The risen Jesus came to the doubting Thomas and told him: ‘Put
your finger here; see my hands. Reach
out your hand and put it into my side.
Stop doubting and believe’ (John
20:27, NIV). In the same way he comes to
us with nail-scarred hands. He is the
wounded healer and it is by his wounds and through his apparent weakness, that
we find healing and strength.
When you are going through mental and emotional anguish
you can feel so weak and vulnerable and alone.
You might think that you just have to be strong to get through it and
when you have managed to do this then you will be happy and blessed.
How refreshing it can be to have someone who tells you
that it is okay to be weak and that we have a God who comes to us in our
weakness. We have a wounded healer in
Jesus who is happy to be with us and bless us in our most vulnerable
moments. We can never do enough or be
strong enough – none of us can. Not
ultimately. Even the strongest person
can’t overcome death on their own. And
they don’t have to!
Jesus tells us: ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my
power is made perfect in weakness’ (2 Corinthians 12:9, NIV). So as you
minister to the vulnerable in your care, know that you can be vulnerable
yourself. The grace of God is enough for
you and is enough for them. Help them to
see Jesus as their wounded healer who was pierced and crushed for them so they
can find their peace in him.
Stephen Schultz, PO Box 1057
Littlehampton, South Australia 5250
Stephen.schultz@lca.org.au